-either being that couple that grew up together or the couple that when you first met there was an immediate connection
-having a beautiful ceremony in the snow
-such smiley Jon
-people calling you the Queen of the North (which doesn’t go well when you meed Daenerys the first time)
-Jon isnt big into PDA, but the stuff he does is quite cute, like hand holding, or kissing your hand
-but those eyes tell you everything
-you plan battle strategy together
-everyone is super respectful of you
-i feel like Jon would be with someone who isn’t super into extravagant things to people like you because you feel like one of them
-but not everyone likes you, like Cersei wants your head on the spike but thats not too unexpected
-Jon loves just watching you talk to people
-like, he’s not always the best at connecting to people or talking, but you just make it look so effortless and he loves you for it
-that special smile he only uses on you
-telling each other everything
-honestly, probably talking battle strategy as pillow talk
-he likes to feel your hair
-when no one is around you sit on his lap
-he’s the guy who is going to grab you by your face when he kisses you
-yum
-so much fur on your bed and warmth and fire place and cuddles
-making each other laugh
-he doesn’t say i love you just whenever, he says it when he truly means it and feels it which makes it really special
-being super protective of each other
-him teaching you how to fight with a sword
-him giving you with heavier and heavier swords while you practice until you get to the regular sword weight
-him being so proud of you for learning
-he just loves being proud of you, which happens often
-you’re always surprising him with how much he freaking loves you